If Nothing was in Your Way, What Would You Change?

This was the question I left a client with at the end of our session yesterday:

“In an ideal world — where you have the ability, the capacity, and all the resources and answers at your fingertips — what would you change to improve your life?”

A simple question. But not an easy one.

It assumes there are no excuses left.

No limits.

No blaming your partner, your boss, your bank balance, or your childhood.

It’s just you.

Unblocked.

Unlimited.

Unapologetically honest.

What would you change?

Take a minute. Really think.

Because your answer might quietly reveal what you’ve already outgrown — or what you’ve been avoiding.

In my experience, most people already know what needs to shift. They just bury it under “not yet,” “can’t right now,” or “I wouldn’t know where to start.”

But when you take out all the friction; when you imagine having full capacity, perfect timing, and zero fear — what do you see?

A new job? A deeper relationship? A hard conversation? More play? Less pretending? A wilder sex life? Less wine? More truth?

There’s no right answer. But there is your answer.

And whatever it is — it’s worth paying attention to.